Helping a Foster Child Through Anger: What to Do in the Moment

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Anger is one of the things people worry about most before they start fostering, and one of the things experienced carers talk about least. Here is what actually helps: spotting the build-up, holding steady in the moment, and what the rules really say about physical help and calling the police.

Fostering a Child With FASD: What Actually Helps

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Foetal alcohol spectrum disorder is common among children in care and widely missed, and a child with FASD is often read as deliberately difficult. What the condition actually does, what helps day to day, and the one approach that reliably makes it worse.

When a Foster Child Is Being Bullied: What Actually Helps

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Why a child in care is an easier target, what to say in the first ten seconds, what a school in England legally has to do about bullying, and how to complain when it does not. Practical help from a London fostering agency rated Outstanding by Ofsted.

Fostering a Child With ADHD: What Actually Helps

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Waits for an ADHD assessment now run into years. Here is what a foster carer can do in the meantime, the changes NICE actually recommends, and where our own older advice about food turns out to be wrong.

When a Foster Child Tells You Something

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What if a child tells me something terrible and I say the wrong thing? Here is what actually helps in the moment, what to write down, who you tell, and why a child telling you is usually a sign your home is working.